Why does a woman live with a woman? Is it following fashion trends? Taking revenge on men? Here's how those who fled the traditional love camp explain their choice.
All men are s…
“The women in my family never saw anything good in men. When asked, 'Who was Grandpa?' my grandmother always answered, 'He burned up, and there was no smoke.' My father earned the nickname 'the cyclist': he was always riding somewhere, always far from home. Perhaps it's not surprising that I decided to choose a woman. And I haven't regretted it. We're happy together: we fairly share all the responsibilities, even the ones men usually run away from.”
Women who treat men poorly pass this feeling on to their daughters. The image of a couch potato, a “goat” who only wants one thing, who will “play around with you and then leave you,” is one of the reasons why a woman chooses a woman. Fear and disgust toward “animal” men are what sometimes lead to unconventional choices. So, if you want to raise a heterosexual girl, don't hold a grudge against men.
And one more thing: don't do men's work! In pursuit of equality, women themselves snatch initiative and work from men's hands, leaving them with no choice but to lie quietly on the couch.
Because of the heavy workload, she becomes nervous, embittered towards the entire male gender and, as a result, either passes on her attitude to the younger generation or leaves the man for the woman.
Unhappy love
“My relationships with women began the day I shaved my head. I did it out of sheer, unrequited love for a man. That's when I discovered that girls were right there.”
This is perhaps the most common reason for leaving someone for another love. The inability to build relationships with the opposite sex, resentment, loneliness, and feelings of unattractiveness, common among many teenagers, can force a person to seek love where the competition is less intense. This is the path of least resistance, which will sooner or later lead to disappointment if a person is driven not by true desires and attractions, but by considerations of emotional comfort. It's better to endure unhappy love alone; a love experience with a woman can lead to a wall growing between you and men that won't be broken down even in several years.
Dances to choose from
“Sex with a woman is more refined, sophisticated, and unhurried. And although I love the male body more than the female, I find what I need only in a woman's embrace.”
Even lesbian erotic dances differ from the movements of women who love men. After all, dance is a kind of imitation of sexual intercourse. Traditional movements are more conservative and rhythmic, while lesbians tend to be languid and fluid, emphasizing their breasts and hips. If a woman occasionally engages in sex with another woman, it's a sign of her bisexuality. She's unlikely to be happy in life: such a “split” of desires is a difficult challenge, as people always strive to find their way. Even great bisexuals, such as Marlene Dietrich or Madonna (who eventually settled on men), weren't seeking variety, but rather trying to understand themselves.
Like clockwork
“I get the impression that half the world's female population has decided that not trying sex with a woman is a sign of cowardice and narrow-mindedness.”
Fashion has a significant influence on hobbies. Young people are especially susceptible to it. Homosexuality is a hot topic today. It's no coincidence that the group “Tatu,” whose lead singers have no connection to sexual minorities, successfully exploited the theme of same-sex female love. Incidentally, true lesbians disdained the work of this once-popular duo. Although their success was precisely calculated, the young people's desire for shock value and imitation (kissing girls, taking off their shirts, like on stage) takes its toll. So the mass appeal and peculiar popularity of same-sex relationships are largely children's games, concocted for them by cynical adults.
Fight for a woman
“Recently, on the subway, two girls waved at me, enthusiastically expressing their admiration for my appearance. My mood was lifted—so what if they were girls? I need attention, and it doesn't matter from whom.”
This is a problem of seeking comfort and low self-esteem. Among lesbians, traditionally male behavior patterns, such as fighting for a partner, are now more common than among men. For a young girl deprived of male attention, lesbian jousting tournaments in her honor are a pleasant surprise. Self-esteem soars, overshadowing all other instincts and feelings.